Hello my stalkers,

So I was reading KOMMYTILA'S blog about payback . and I thought "why waste your newly acquired time on some guy that obviously not worth it". Cause let's think about it, you think about payback with a guy who you thought was your time but proved he isn't worth it. I have once seriously thought about payback with any of my exes, because while I might be hurt sometimes by what he has done, I prefer that he acted shitty instead of staying with me and having no feeling for me. Plus when a guy acts shitty in the end it makes it easier for you to get over him. When you start thinking bout how to pay him back for the shit you think he has done, you spend the time you should be spending catching up with important people and mending on the person who's hurt you. And while you sit and try making up the perfect scheme to get back at him or her, you make everyone around you miserable. Once, I tried to hate my ex for the longest time and it made me miserable because every time I bumped into him I'd go on and on about how I couldn't hate him and how maybe there could be hope for us, but once I accepted that we would have ended anyways and he did nothing other think of his own happiness I just stopped trying and started living my life. When you think about payback, you become aggressive and chase better people (guys and perspective friends) away. If the guy doesn't like you that way anymore no matter what you do it wouldn't hurt him, his ego might be bruised for the first hour but he will bounce back. So instead of living your life for this guy that you have classified as worthless, go out and do something you haven't done in a while something you love, something for yourself and bask yourself in the newly acquired power of doing something totally for yourself. You know how people are always at your beck and call when they know you are in pain, don't waste their sympathy use it top heal what you think may be a broken heart.

Once again if you think he is worthless enough to deserve pain, he is worthless enough to be erased from the list of people who deserve your time.. But also, don't hate someone for thinking about his happiness and ultimately your own happiness. If he is miserable in your relationship he will make you miserable. the longer you stay with him the more miserable you will be because you will be in a long term miserable relationship and when you guys break up you will be miserable because you will ask yourself why you stayed in a miserable relationship. So let him go, be happy that he is happy. I know it is hard but think about all the things you wanted to do all the times you wanted to go out all the time you wanted to cry or laugh, all the times you couldn't shop as long as you wanted to, all the decor you had to take of your wall because he taught they weren't right, all the times you had to smile at that one friend of his that you hate, all the times you had to cook even when you didn't want to, all the the times that can be classified as all the time just to please him. If you classify any of these things as all the unpleasurable times, he wasn't right. If he is no matter what after a while it will become a routine, not a separate section of your life.Your all the times will become life and while you hate it you will find a reason to love it-him.

xoxoxo
Your fav Stalker,