REPLY TO THE OBJECT OF MY FAITHFUL STALKTATION :D

So a friend of mine wrote something bout excuses women make and when i pointed out the fact that men make the same excuses, he told me that it was up to a girl to attack this grievance. Well, i think he is right so I am going to attack the male species today.

The excuse in Question ? "I just got out of a relationship, I am not ready for another one. Let's just have fun"

My problem with this excuse? I have more than one problem, but I will start with the error in timing. Every guy that I have heard make this excuse ended their relationship at least two months before the conversation. one day is just, one week is just, two weeks is just, three weeks is not just, a month is not just, two months baby is a life time! Two months is enough to get over a girl who you realize was a complete bitch!

Yes I know I said I had many problems with this excuse, so I will get on with my second problem. Most guys that make this excuse were the ones who approached the girl and even brought up the whole relationship topic. Most girls I know would never prod a guy to ask them to be in a relationship. In fact, most girls would wait patiently for the guy to realize that he wants to be in a serious relationship(at least I did). So why bring up this supposed dreaded topic if you don't want to talk about it. Don't put ideas in our heads if you are not ready to follow up.

My next problem. SPECIFY! WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY A RELATIONSHIP? Cos even fun can be classified as a relationship. friendship is a relationship, sex buddies= a relationship, friends with benefit= a relationship, unofficial boyfriend/girlfriend= a relationship, official boyfriend/girlfriend= a SERIOUS relationship. So Buster by saying you are not ready for a relationship you haven't actually knocked your point across. And do not go about wondering why a girl refuses to have "fun" with you cause I will save your time by telling you. TWO SECONDS AGO YOU JUST TOLD HER YOU WERE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP. To us girls the only thing that doesn't qualify as a relationship is a one night stand with a total stranger you are never going to meet in your life.

My last issue with this excuse. Don't give us the BULLSHIT. we all know that when a guy tells you that it means we don't want you. Why then do girls hope for the best? Cause we like you enough to think you might be our exemption. we like you enough to believe that you might become ready for us. That's why even after you nonsensical speech we stick around, call all day, send text messages pretending it was meant for someone else, email, tag you in fcbk notes and do whatever you ask us to. So if you really don't like a girl that way at least respect her enough to say, I DO NOT LIKE YOU AS ANYTHING ELSE BUT A FRIEND. And trust me you will still have a friend at the end of the day, instead of making enemies out of all her friends.

I know I said many problems and this might not feel like a lot of issues, but they can drag for a very long time and I am unaashamed to say I speak from experience. So guys please get to the point and stop trying to spare our feelings